April 18, 2008
Living
artfully
Producing in
Hollywood is not easy. Its an ongoing test of will not to show weakness,
to look for what the others you are negotiating with want and to help
them get it in a way that moves your project forward, too. All of
this has to be done with an eye not just on the bottom line, but also
on creating artful content that others will enjoy.
Like everyone,
I get so wrapped up in work that it becomes hard to remember that
time is passing, except when I look at the bills. It seems like nothing
but struggle and we all get so involved in each daily crisis it's
easy to lose track of time. But the days keep rolling on, one after
the next.
I got a call
today that made me think of all this. Thirty-two years ago I lived
in the country in a small rural town in Michigan. Then my worries
were beginning of life issues. How will I get forward in my career?
What do I do when people don't want to hire me? (Wait a minute, it
seems sometimes that I'm still working on these same issues...)
At that time
our close friends were the couple my first husband worked for. They
were bohemians, artists from Kansas who grew up, moved to Michigan
and had a business that designed and built museum exhibits. Their
company was moderately successful, building interpretive designs --
which really meant once they were awarded a contract some delivery
guy would walk into their offices with a cardboard box and ask "Where
you want these artifacts put?" They would then research what
those objects meant and build the displays that put the old objects
into perspective.
In the days before
computer graphics, creating designs and layouts and print pieces was
a skill that took creativity and a lot of art. Vic had an extrordinary
ability to visualize and draw things. But besides being extrordinary
artists, they were the first grownups I knew who really lived the
artful life daily. Not just a moment or two but every day. Vic's wife
Patty could paint watercolors, sew, create displays and cook a mean
ham.
Patty
wrote about this time of all our lives in a very funny
book. The first time I read it tears rolled down my face I laughed
so hard.
When I got married
to my first husband (of course, I'm still married to the same guy)
Patty had promised "If you guys would only get married you can
have my favorite cat!" She showed up at our wedding reception
with a cat carrier -- but it just contained a couple of bricks wrapped
in a towel. She loved George her cat too much to give him up!
Patty died today.
I will miss her.

Allison and Patty 2002